How do I make my 360 profile visible?

I can't figure it out. Does anyone know how to help me, because I would love for my friends to have a link to my 360.

I've checked the privacy section where the link to my 360 WOULD be atleast 5 times and its not there. Should I be looking somewhere else? Or is there some weird magick involved? XD

So, if I am chatting and someone pulls up my profile, I want it to go to the 360 one and not the Yahoo profile. The Yahoo profile won't let me load photos due to my internet connection or something, but I was able to load one on 360. Thanks!

I cannot delete the 360 profile and I cant add another one UNDER MY account name. I can create another profile and even label it to be the default profile, but I have to use another name, which kind of defeats the purpose. I want other users to be able...

When people click to view my profile in Yahoo! Games, they are still led to the original profile. I've seen some that shows their 360 profile directly. How do I set this?

When someone clicks on my messenger profile it shows the plain white background and none of the 360 updates. Yet if someone clicks on my 360 profile via answers it shows the updated version. I want to keep the updated version and delete the old.

say you are in a chatroom, and someone clicks on view profile, how do i make it so my 360 profile comes up instead of the normal one?

I have an old profile and a 360 the 360 will not come up on my edit profile page and i cannot get it to show up on messenger aanymore, this is really annoying as i only use 360 now and cant seem to let people see it.

I had my 360 as my defualt user profile and somehow it got messed up and my old profile is defaulted as my profile. I want people to click on my name and be brought to my 360 automatically. I can not find a setting to fix this and no one remebers how...